Communis+ Cation = Sharing + Exchanging= COMMUNICATION

The title is self explanatory in suggesting what I am going to be talking about in the following few lines....however the depth of this one word is so, that one may drown into its ocean called meaning and  perhaps never rise up on the surface  with its true implication in one’s  life.

Sharing is not enough...Exchange of thoughts is also required for a complete cycle of communication...If one only shares and does not get a response; communication remains incomplete hence sharing+ exchanging= communication.

The art of expressing one’s thoughts in merely WORDS is sometimes not enough or perhaps is not the best means of sharing and exchanging what is actually there in our mind or what needs to be conveyed to the other party.

Sometimes Communication makes life so easy while at other times it also makes it most complicated. Free flowing words from our mouth may or may not be understood in the most desirable manner so we need to pay a lot of attention while choosing our words in the course of conveying the message... a tip that I received from a wise man which I do agree with so putting across to my blog readers... but also on the flip side... there are some emotions which are best understood simply by not uttering even a word and by just knowing the message that the sender is transmitting....Often this sort of communication is “BEST UNDERSTOOD” and  as said by another noble person... something’s are best understood by keeping quiet.

Feelings and certain emotions cannot solely depend on words for correspondence to happen. As important and vital it is for the speaker/sender to pay attention to the words that he/she may pick to articulate the message, it is equally imperative for the listener or receiver to pay attention to what is being transmitted...and if words are missing then how to best understand by the expression, touch, gestures and other forms of non verbal communication...the list is long and you might want to Google up for better understanding... :P

We are lucky to be living in computer age where communication has been made so simple by various forms and means, then why are we complicating our lives by using less of these channels...
Whatever may be the source, bottom line of my blog is that lets make our relationship stronger and better by communicating and channelizing our thoughts in the best possible manner...many of our miseries will be over!!

Share and exchange is the mantra dear friends...give it a thought

Let’s make the complicated …simple

The other day I missed the cab so I had to resort to a cycle rickshaw to reach office on time…on ma way to DLF Phase 5; I came across several delectable sights which really made me ponder hard on how simple things could really make complicated life fascinating and gratifying.
Kids, carefree of the scorching sunny day, playing on the swing made up of rope tied between 2 trees. A young lad, serving cold glass of water to every thirsty passerby, girls dressed in colorful dresses running and chasing each other. These were all sights that totally held ma attention and got a smile on my face.
On my way back from office, I pulled the screen down and let the heavy blast of air come in. It made my hair all messy but refreshed me totally… I was excited and letting myself lose and easy with these little things was giving me pleasure which was far beyond comparison.
Then a thought occurred to me… life can be made so simple and easy with the way we live it…it’s the unnecessary pressure that we live up with, which not only proves futile but also plagues our life with only distress and tension.
Kids playing in the scorching daylight do not fear falling sick, regardless of whether the water is pure or not, thirsty man still drinks the water to succumb his thirst, young girls not one bit worried about their future, as to what will happen next, play around in glory. This is what is living life… we may feel very comfortable sitting in a big luxury car with the AC on but the excitement that one experiences with the air gushing in the car through the open window screen is something one cannot comprehend….
Just give it a thought, life could be made so simple if we were to get up each day smiling, welcoming each day with wide stretched arms rather than worrying how the day would go? All we should care about is that we should give our best to our ability in whatever work we are putting in our effort and everything would fall right at its place…hence complicated will be made simple!!

Values..Ethics..Principles and culture:Are they for real???

Values, Ethics Principles and culture- These are big heavy words but do they really mean or do we really follow them in the real sense?
Who sets these values and ethics? How can it fit apt for both Mr.A and Mr.A's son? Are they not two different people with two different brains and two different nervous systems?
I don't deny the fact that child's first school of learning begins at home. Parents instill values, ethics in the child and raise them with good culture but as time passes by, the toddler becomes an adolescent and finally grooms up into an adult.During this entire transition, the individual evolves into a mature person and starts thinking his own way.He has his own set of values ethics principles and culture now- what is wrong in it?
Times change, people change, environment and surroundings change, trend, style, fashion, taste everything changes.
Undoubtedly values and culture are something which should be affirmed and prized but who decides which values should i adorn, which culture sholud i adopt to. What is right and what is wrong?
Its both heart and soul that enables the individual to determine and distinguish between good and evil. Heart and soul decides values, ethics, principles and culture. There is no good or bad values, ethics, principles and culture. It is how we perceive them to be.
In my opinion an honest cobler who earns his daily livelihood by sewing and mending people's shoes is a man of greater values, ethics and culture than an officer who lacks integrity and often accepts bribes to do unethical jobs.
An individual of strong will, mind and soul with pure and gentle heart would surely exhibit good values, ethics,principles and culture.
Hence to make values,culture, ethics and principles real one should first have good heart and soul.

So much more yet so much less…

There is so much yet so less. In the run for more and more…everyone wants more in life...no one seems satisfied with what they have...
We don’t seem to understand the value of what we have and the cause, the reason that we exist for. We simply join the race to gain more and more. But the question is what do we get out of it?
Will more riches & wealth cure fatal diseases like cancer or Aids? Will Daniel getting more marks in exams make him the best boy? Will the understanding between Sandra and Chris grow if he gives her more time and takes her out shopping? Will the almighty come straight down to Earth to give his enormous blessings if we were to worship him more and more?
The answers to all these questions can never be determined. Because the run for more and more will never have a stop but yes there may come a time when the lust, the greed for more and more would reach a point when the world will explode and humanity will shatter down into pieces. Man will never know what the beauty of simplicity in life is. He would be so busy thriving for more that he’d even forget and may never realize what wonders can be created with less and a few…
Surely money can’t buy everything but love can do wonders. Love and affection can heal the greatest of diseases. It can make a person feel valued and worthy. Probably more marks may not make Daniel the best boy but satisfactory performance with some amount of participation in extracurricular activities and moral values would make him an extra ordinary boy. For better understanding to thrive between Chris and Sandra, Chris need not spend more time with Sandra or take her shopping. It is a mutual feeling that each one needs to develop for one another. That’s the beauty of love and life. Undeniably the almighty would not come down to shower his auspicious blessings on all of us if we were to worship him more and more but definitely with benevolence, compassion and concern for all beings one can truly please Lord and serve humanity.
It’s all very simple and eternal. This seeks no training, no effort. One will live contented and satisfied if he/ she can abhor the worldly pleasures and live for one another.
Ill feelings like envy, revulsion, covetousness, resentment, vengeance can be ousted if one determines to live a simple content and happy life.
There won’t be a question of so much more yet so much less ever….everything will be so perfect when the purpose of all will be clear and carved out…